I have reported every single breach, made over 30 statements, for two and a half years collecting the evidence myself because he would not stop and not even they could stop him nor the judges who slapped order after order on him. Over 25 criminal charges for 2 1/2 years of stalking,burglary, theft, property damage, death threats, threats to cause serious injury,and charges for breaches to the orders already given for dv all going before a court and what do they do? Because it took so friggin long to have that psychotic prick arrested, and so much evidence to look through, the court consolidated all his charges and called it a first offence! No wonder the arse believes he can get away with it! 12 months jail, served 2 in remand paroled in 6, re arrested after a week he was out. And what happens now?
I fled our home with my children, not one person i know knows where we are except the police. We have no family, no friends, no car, no money because he left me in 50k debt and my only way out was bankruptcy, we lost half our possessions because we couldnt affort to bring them but worst of all two beautiful innocent little victims who were made to witness such horrific threats. And i could do nothing about it! That bastard stalked us so badly we were locked inside too friggin scared to open the door. The police knew about it! They were investigating it for two years at 4 different police stations and it was only because I had to supply the evidence.
Yeah as if im not in further danger because of it.
Did everything I could and even now that I did my own witness protection, those breaches that were done whilst on parole, the police know about it but cant do shit unless I put our lives on the line again. We moved interstate so for me to do a statement here, gives him our new location because he has a right to my statements. He also gets hold of my new names which is how he finds us every time. The police over there wont investigate without my statement. The stupid part here is I do a statement here and they send it over there anyway. So what do I do? The police say its my call and they cant guarantee he wont find out. Lawyers have said its up to the police. The police there say its up to the police here, the police here say they will do everything they can but it all gets sent to the police there. These breaches are for a corrections order, an intervention order, a federal family court order and a parole order and i cant do shit without him knowing our names and location. We cant move again, i dont have the money and stuffed if i wanna give him the satisfaction of screwing our lives up again, my babies are finally smiling and laughing again after so many friggin years of waiting and praying.
So if anyone can give me any advice on what to do. I want his balls on a platter for what he put us through but my only priority is to keep that sick twisted crack head away from my children so they stay safe, happy and healthy.
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